In order to get dates, you need to be seen by Cewek Bugil. Moreover you need to be seen to be a leader. It seems quite obvious that you will not get dates by sitting at home in your room. You have to get out there. To do this I recommend becoming a little more social. If you are a bit of a loner then you will have to realize that you will need to develop some social skill or else it will become quite difficult for you to meet ABG Seksi. Gaining friends doesn't have to be a difficult thing, all you have to do is be willing to open yourself up to others.